K.T. Oslin Defied Odds & Ageism as the Queen of “80’s Ladies” (RIP)

Music is a young person’s game. We all know that. And it’s reinforced every time you look at the charts, or turn on the radio, or watch a big awards show. It’s even harder for women in an ageist industry with image requirements and expectations unduly burdening them to make any sort of run at stardom later in life. But K.T. Oslin bucked all of that in her career. She defied many of the odds to leave her mark of launching an admirable career, and a country music anthem for many of a generation.
K.T. Oslin’s country music career was mostly an accident. Though she sang with Guy Clark in a folk trio in Houston where she grew up in the 60’s, stage acting turned out to be her initial calling, and she moved to New York to perform in prominent theater productions such as Hello Dolly and West Side Story. Oslin appeared in television commercials and smaller productions as well, with acting remaining her principle concern.
But during the slower moments of her career, she started penning songs, and that’s when this Manhattan-based theater personality accidentally fell head first into a full-blown country music career in her 40’s. Sending her compositions to rights publisher SESAC, they saw K.T. Oslin’s work fitting much more in a country vein than pop or rock. Soon they were shopping them around Nashville, and K.T. became one of the hottest songwriting commodities around.
Even as her own country singles released on Elecktra Records in the early 80’s failed garner much interest, others were minting hits with her songs. Blame it on the ageism that was even prevalent in country music at that time. But Gail Davies had a hit with the K.T.-written “Round the Clock Lovin’” in 1982, and Sissy Spacek had a hit with “Lonely But Only For You” after the notoriety she received starring in the movie Coal Miner’s Daughter.
But in 1987, Oslin switched labels to RCA, and instead of falling victim with the inherent ageism in the industry, K.T. Oslin confronted it, and found the greatest success of her career, in country music or otherwise. Her first single “Wall of Tears” just barely cracked into the Top 40, but it got the attention of everyone. Then came the song “80’s Ladies,” which spoke very specifically to growing up, and growing old. And at 45-years-old, K.T. Oslin had a major hit.
We were the girls of the 50’s.
Stoned rock and rollers in the 60’s.
And more than our names got changed
As the 70’s slipped on by.
Now we’re 80’s ladies.
There ain’t been much these ladies ain’t tried.
The song spoke to women both young and old, and became an anthem. It also made K.T. the first ever middle-aged woman to launch a country career in history. Oslin’s unlikely story made her easy to root for, as did her brash humor and personality that fit the role perfectly. Soon she was one of the most popular performers in country music. She became the 1988 CMA Female Vocalist of the Year, and “80’s Ladies” became Song of the Year.
“80’s Ladies” was her signature, but subsequent songs would become bigger hits. Both “Do Ya” and “I’ll Always Come Back” from the 1987 album 80’s Ladies hit #1, while the album itself soon went Platinum. Oslin also had a #1 with “Hold Me” in 1988, and another with “Come Next Monday,” in early 1990. In many respects, K.T. Oslin helped define late 80’s country music, at least for women, though her career sharply declined shorty afterwards. As the next decade ensued, the 80’s influence of K.T. Oslin was left behind.
In retrospect though, the contributions of K.T. Oslin have withstood the test of time better than most. Smart songwriting and confident delivery combined with timeless themes have kept K.T.’s music current, as many of today’s country listeners mine the 80’s looking for more heart than today’s “country” offerings and find it in her songs, despite the time stamp.
It was announced Monday morning (12-21) that K.T. Oslin has passed away at the age of 78. The Crossett, Arkansas native had been suffering from Parkinson’s since 2016, and had recently been in a nursing home. She had also been recently diagnosed with COVID-19, though that has not been announced as the cause of death at this time.
December 21, 2020 @ 10:15 am
She was always on my radar even when I first got deep into country music. She was just one of those names that kept coming when I would search for great female country singers on the web.
Parkinsons is rough so at least she’s not suffering that anymore. And I hope more people discover and the 80s country has resurgence.
December 21, 2020 @ 10:20 am
I am in my late 30s and back in my barhopping days 80s ladies was a song we would always play on the jukebox. RIP KT.
December 21, 2020 @ 10:36 am
“80s Ladies” was released 33 years ago. At what age did you start drinking? I’m trying to do the math in my head. I’m 44 and by the time I started barhopping, KT Oslin couldn’t be found on any jukebox.
December 21, 2020 @ 11:38 am
I was barhopping in my early to mid twenties and the bars I went to had internet jukeboxes.
December 21, 2020 @ 12:04 pm
You’re lucky. My memories of KT Oslin involve micro machines and legos.
December 21, 2020 @ 10:20 am
Although I look back an wonder how “country” her music should have been considered, 12 and 13 year old me was a HUGE fan. I remember the “80’s Ladies” video being played on TNN like it was yesterday. I had cassette tapes filled with “Do Ya,” “I’ll Always Come Back,” “Hold Me,” “Hey Bobby” ripped right from the radio station airwaves (some DJ banter and local commercial intros included) .
I had a friend who recently passed who was a huge fan too. I went to message him about her death and realized he’s gone.
December 21, 2020 @ 2:18 pm
C’mon—Compared to pretty much anything you’d hear on country radio today [which often strays far afield of anything remotely Country], K.T. Oslin’s music certainly fit the bill—it may not have sounded like anything Loretta or Tammy sang, but it certainly fit right in alongside Patsy Kline.
Call it 80s Countrypolitan, And there was plenty of it.
Mid-80s–mid-90s Country had a bumper crop of smart, sassy, distinctive, mature, female Country singers who, if they weren’t exactly K.T.’s age, still didn’t present themselves—lyrically, musically or visually—as hot young things in denim cut-offs: Reba, Suzy Boggus, Pam Tillis, Patty Loveless, Mary Chapin Carpenter, Martina, Faith, etc….
These ladies ruled the charts back then*, singing about grown-up-woman themes both serious and tongue-in-cheek…. and K.T. had precisely the style to be an integral part of that great era in country music.
*yes, along with a few talented guys…Garth, Clint, Travis & Alan Jackson are a few names that come to mind.
December 21, 2020 @ 2:41 pm
I always said that era from the end of the Urban Cowboy to the Class of 88 was the worst in country music. Even Reba and Alabama albums from that era sound over synthesized and metro adult contemporary. I regularly catch Prime County Countdown and skip any from 83-88. The exceptions were Randy Travis, George Strait and Dwight Yoakam (and maybe a few others). That era was also overrun by washed up pop acts.
I believe the class of 88 was a direct response to the dark pop era.
Most the female artist you cited peaked past this time and I commented on the Hal Ketchum death post about how smart country was from a period of time 1990-1994 citing Mary Chapin Carpenter and Suzy Bogus specifically, but those two artists would be considered Americana today.
December 21, 2020 @ 8:55 pm
I would add Nanci Griffith to that list for sure lots of great work in that period. Also Lyle Lovett.
December 22, 2020 @ 6:53 am
Nanci Griffith’s Lone Star State of Mind album from 1987 was the first album I bought from the country section of a record store. Then her great live album One Fair Summer Evening came out the next year. Her cover of Tecumseh Valley was the first time I heard a Townes Van Zant song. She was my gateway to Guy Clark, too.
Another artist that made some great music in the early ’90s was Kelly Willis. Love the three albums she released on MCA. And then they dropped her.
December 21, 2020 @ 10:46 am
RIP. Not to bring any disrespect to her or her music but i never could get into her music. It really wasn’t country but I will admit that I do love the song “Come Monday”. This year has been unbelievable with how many deaths in country music alone :/
December 21, 2020 @ 10:51 am
In general I do care for re-recordings, but her re-make of “80’s Ladies” is sublime:
https://youtu.be/mj3voZ9kDic
December 21, 2020 @ 11:21 am
2020 just won’t stop. Prayers to her family.
December 21, 2020 @ 12:05 pm
Damn that sexist Saving Country Music guy and his… (shuffles deck)… celebration of the career of a trailblazing woman.
/sarcasm
December 21, 2020 @ 12:22 pm
Sorry to hear about K.T. passing. I didn’t know how old she was.
There are precious few men who broke into commercial country in middle age, either.
Vern Gosdin was just shy of 50 when he had his first big hit, in 1984, but he’d been in the folk scene and cut records with his brother Rex, decades earlier.
There was also a guy who broke in in the mid ’70s with one of the biggest country/pop crossover hits of all-time, when he was in his late 40s, but he was something of a novelty act. I’ll let someone else name him.
December 22, 2020 @ 7:33 am
I was going to say Ray Stevens with “Everything is Beaitiful” but the timing doesn’t work.
December 22, 2020 @ 4:42 pm
Charlie Daniels?
December 22, 2020 @ 10:22 pm
Ray Stevens started out young in the early ’60’s, IIRC.
December 22, 2020 @ 1:44 pm
CW McCall and “Convoy”?
December 21, 2020 @ 12:28 pm
RIP. Wasn’t the biggest fan of her sound but do appreciate her songwriting.
This is a nice tribute. One of the many reasons I will continue supporting this website.
December 21, 2020 @ 1:14 pm
I didn’t know she had died. 2020 just keeps rollin, unfortunately. I was actually singing “I’ll Always Come Back” the other day while doing laundry. It just came to me and I remembered every word- guess her songs really do stand the test of time! RIP KT.
December 21, 2020 @ 1:19 pm
“Do Ya? is my favorite. It’s funny, my husband was listening to my music, 3 months or so ago, & discovered this song & loves it. RIP
December 21, 2020 @ 2:25 pm
only time I saw her live, she played in between bonnie raitt and g’n’r’ at the hoosierdome farm aid show, maybe the greatest of all farm aid concerts.
unfortunately have to add her to the list of acts from that show that are now deceased: johnny gimble, yank rachell, billy nelson, bill monroe, billy joe shaver, alex harvey, don williams, skeet anglin, john prine, john denver, carl perkins, lou reed, kt oslin, emcees dick clark and dennis weaver.
December 21, 2020 @ 11:53 pm
I believe there are some clips of her at farm aid on YouTube. It looked like a hell of a performance
December 21, 2020 @ 3:59 pm
She was so good. 78, though? Where have the years gone?
December 22, 2020 @ 6:14 am
She is my favorite female artist, bar none.
And, it may be my age, but I think she was also the sexiest- as in alluring- not slutty.
2020 SUCKS!
December 22, 2020 @ 9:11 am
Thanks, KT., for helping put biscuits on my table. Rest now.
December 22, 2020 @ 2:11 pm
Love K.T. RIP.
December 22, 2020 @ 2:27 pm
RIP to a country music LEGEND. I’m glad you “touched” on the whole ageism issue. Theres a 28-year age gap between my wife and I (I’m 28 years older than her), and we experienced a lot of hate and criticism when we began dating 20 years ago. I recently celebrated my 66th birthday, and even after 18 years of marriage, the criticism still hurts.
December 22, 2020 @ 11:34 pm
You lucky devil. 😉
Happy birthday!
December 24, 2020 @ 9:00 pm
Thanks. I am lucky, and I meant to type 18 (not 28), still a big age difference though.
December 22, 2020 @ 10:19 pm
Sad to hear, following the deaths of Charley Pride, Lynn Anderson, and Daron Norwood, this lady, who’d accomplished a lot in her life as a country musician, despite the ageism that plagued her. May she rest in peace having contributed to world culture a great body of work better than the pop country we have now.
December 23, 2020 @ 7:14 pm
With all the deaths within country music this year, two all but forgotten names are also on the list—Kenny Dale and MaRhine Bowes.
December 31, 2020 @ 3:46 pm
Who is “MaRhine Bowes”?
December 31, 2020 @ 3:57 pm
Margie Bowes.
December 31, 2020 @ 4:08 pm
Thanks!
December 24, 2020 @ 10:56 am
I remember when K.T. came on the scene back in the 80’s . I used to watch Ralph Emery on TNN almost every night , depending who was on . Being a huge David Allan Coe fan ,then and now, I was watching that night and she was on with D.A.C. . You could tell she was a bit apprehensive being around him ( no telling what she had heard about him), but she was very classy about it . I must say Coe was too , he mentioned her when he sang “The Ride” during the speaking part at the end . I guess my favorite song of her was Come Next Monday . R.I.P. K.T. Oslin